There are a whole lot of reasons by older folks experience the raising their grandchildren. The nature of the problem will say a great deal about how exactly you approach the numerous issues of child rearing. The reasons range from death with the parents to situations of abuse, drug or alcohol difficulties or if your youngster had the infant beyond wedlock. So the extent to which you will get the birth parent in the life in the baby will be driven with the severity of the reason you happen to be being inspired to be a parent a second time around. In 1994 Rawanda was devastated by mass killings. 800,000 people died in the Rawandan genocide mainly through the Tutsi tribe murdered by extremist Tutus. At the time this was hard to imagine since they were living together back then. The murderers fled with more than one million refugees heading for eastern Congo. They brought brutality and violence to the region that continues to today.