The best time to start breeding your finches happens when they're about 8 months old. There are finches that are highly dimorphic, meaning one can easily distinguish their gender by simply checking out their colors. An example of this is the Zebra finches. Society finches, conversely, can be a bit challenging on this department because they don?t have color patterns that tell whether these are female or male. One technique in determining the gender of the finches is as simple as placing at least four of which inside a cage and watching which birds get attracted to whom. Once spotted, you can place them in a separate cage in order to start breeding finches. A sensual massage is always one of the best foreplay there is and of course a perfect way to relieve stress.