One just needs proper guidance that can be obtained if a consult is sought to a medical professional This doesn?t happen when you aren?t her type or maybe because sometimes this stuff happen (or don?t) ? there?s a different, special reason the woman you?re thinking about doesn?t seem interested in you together with it?s got a great deal to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you teach you?re thinking about a good-looking girl who?s with her friends, you inadvertently boost her ego and a feeling of self-worth. She knows you?ve chosen and so are most interested in her and likes this sense of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously interested in YOU, she?ll lose the higher social value she's over her friends (likely the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, ?I?m a bit too good for you? status.